I have been in a relationship devoid if sex with a lady known to our families and friends for over 3 years and we are hoping to get married when we finish service...after school, I was posted to the far end of the northern part of the country while my fiancé was posted to the west...after orientation, I was lucky to be posted to a school where where I met this girl whom I know has an eye for me...as we got talking, I made her realise that I already have someone in mind that we can only be friends...because she kept putting pressure, I asked that my fiancée pay a visit so as to kill the pressure which she refused on the ground that her parents will not allow it...and so, I kept the new lady at arms length thinking and believing that she will give up...I was so wrong...she kept at it and so, I started falling in love with her to the point we had sex but I kept telling her I won't marry her...eight months later, my fiancé broke up with me for reasons best known to her...when I asked her why, she said she just want to move on...as heartbroken as it was , I also had to move on by investing more of my time and moments with the lady I just found...one day after telling her I was going home, I headed to her house knocked and she asked who was there...I said me and when she opened the door after what seem like eternity, I met another guy in her bed and her in a compromising state...it was a moment I just felt gutted and walked away...she came later and started apologising and attributing it to the devil...as much as I told her to get out and never come back, I have really grown to love her so very much and it hurts...since then, she comes begging everyday...BREAKING QUESTIONS OF THE DAY...what should I do...take her back or walk away...what will you do???
I desperately need advice
Mon Feb 03, 2014 2:35 pm by 
